God is the same yesterday, today, and forever…
Saturday, August 16th, 2008 by adminAs a missionary, we always discredited other religions by pointing out how they change with the wind in order to please the people. In some religions, women can hold the priesthood. Many of the the doctrines of the Catholic church are the result of the great council (can’t remember the name of this mtg right now) where mere men argued and voted on the doctrine. If God is the same yesterday, today, and forever, don’t these issues bother you? Of course, if people wouldn’t discuss it, then we would get so frustrated and later talk about how they were closed minded and wouldn’t use plain logic to see how false their church was!
But what about my church? As I get older, I realize that there are plenty of things that have changed in our faith as well. If God doesn’t change, then why are basic values and doctrines changing?
Of course, the ‘canned’ answers come to my mind when think about these things. But then I really think about these things from a logical perspecitve. I’m not saying that I’m going to leave the church or anything, I’m just saying that these are things that I think about sometimes….
First, Polygamy comes to mind. Initially, the church denounced it as evil. The scriptures themselves said it was against the law of God. The Book of Mormon said it was evil as well as the early editions of the Doctrine & Covenants. However, when Joseph Smith and Brigham Young started practicing it, the scriptures changed to allow it.
In the 1835 edition of the canonized Doctrine and Covenants, section 104 denounced polygamy:
“Inasmuch as this church of Christ has been reproached with the CRIME of fornication, and POLYGAMY: we declare that we believe, that ONE man should have ONE WIFE; and one woman, but one husband, except in the case of death, when either is at liberty to marry again.”
(D&C 104, until 1876 edition, when it was removed)
The Book of Mormon says the following about David and Soloman and their wives:
“For behold, thus saith the Lord: This people begin to wax in INIQUITY; they understand NOT the scriptures, for they seek to excuse them- selves in committing WHORE- DOMS, because of the things which were written concerning David, and Solomon his son.“ Behold, David and Solomon truly had many wives and concubines, which thing was ABOMINABLE BEFORE ME, saith the Lord.”
(Book of Mormon, p. 111, verses 23-24)
However, as Joseph started practicing polygamy, the scriptures changed to accommodate it. As mentioned above, the D&C 104 scripture against polygamy was removed in 1876. The following scripture in the D&C is written which seems the contradict what the BofM was saying:
“Verily, thus saith the Lord…you have inquired of my hand to know
and understand wherein I, the Lord, JUSTIFIED my servants…David
and Solomon,…as touching the principle and doctrine of - having
MANY WIVES AND CONCUBINES—“David’s wives and concubines were given unto him of me,…”
(Doctrine and Covenants, section 132, verses l and. 39)
…and more scriptures appeared which gives the rules for polygamy and say that it is of God:
“And again, as pertaining to the law of the priesthood—if any man espouse a virgin, and desire to espouse another, and THE FIRST GIVE HER CONSENT, and if he espouse the second, and they are virgins, and have vowed to no other man, THEN IS HE JUSTIFIED; he cannot commit adultery for they are given unto him; for he cannot commit adultery with that that belongeth unto him and to no one else.”
(Doctrine and Covenants 132:61)
but if it were truly true that men could practice polygamy only if the first wife consented, then why did Joseph and Brigham (and countless others) practice it against their first wife’s wishes?
Emily Dow Partridge testified that she and her sister were married to Joseph without Emma’s consent:
“…the Prophet Joseph and his wife Emma offered us a home in their family, and they treated us with great kindness. We had been there about a year when the principle of plural marriage was made known to us, and I was MARRIED TO JOSEPH SMITH on the 4th of March 1843, Elder Heber C. Kimball performing the ceremony. My sister Eliza was also MARRIED TO JOSEPH a few days later. THIS WAS DONE WITHOUT THE KNOWLEDGE OF EMMA SMITH. Two months afterward she consented to give her husband two wives, providing he would give her the privilege of choosing them. She accordingly chose my sister Eliza and myself, and TO SAVE FAMILY TROUBLE BROTHER JOSEPH THOUGHT IT BEST TO HAVE ANOTHER CEREMONY PERFORMED. Accordingly on the 11th of May, 1843, we were sealed to Joseph Smith a second time, in Emma’s presence,… From that very hour, however, Emma was our BITTER ENEMY. We remained in the family several months after this, but things went from bad to worse until we were obligated to leave the house and find another home.”
(Historical Record, p. 240)Brigham Young gives Mormon women 2 week ultimatem to quit complaining about polygamy:
“Now for my proposition; it is more particularly for my sisters, as it is frequently happening that women say they are UNHAPPY. Men will say, ‘My wife, though a most excellent woman, has NOT SEEN A HAPPY DAY SINCE I TOOK MY SECOND WIFE,’ ‘No, NOT A HAPPY DAY FOR A YEAR,’ says one; and another HAS NOT SEEN AHAPPY DAY FOR FIVE YEARS. It is said that women are tied down and abused: that they are misused and have not the liberty they ought to have; that many of them ARE WADING THROUGH A PERFECT FLOOD OF TEARS,…
“I wish my own women to understand that what I am going to say is for them as well as others, and I want those who are here to tell their sisters, yes, all the women of this community, and then write it back to the States, and do as you please with it. I am going to give you from this time to the 6th day of October next, for reflection, that you may determine whether you wish to stay with your husbands or not, and then I am going TO SET EVERY WOMAN AT LIBERTY and say to them, Now go your way, MY WOMEN WITH THE REST, go your way. AND MY WIVES have go to do one of two things; either round up their shoulders to endure the afflictions of this world, and live their religion, OR THEY MAY LEAVE, for I will not have them about me. I will go into heaven alone, rather than have SCRATCHING AND FIGHTING AROUND ME. I WILL SET ALL AT LIBERTY. ‘WHAT, FIRST WIFE TOO?’ YES, I WILL LIBERATE YOU ALL….
“I wish my women, and brother Kimball’s and brother Grant’s to leave, and every woman in this Territory, or else say in their hearts that they will embrace the Gospel —the whole of it….say to your wives, ‘Take all that I have and be set at liberty; but if you stay with me you shall comply with the law of God, and that too WITHOUT ANY MURMURING AND WHINING. You must fulfil the law of God in every respect, and round up your shoulders to WALK UP TO THE MARK WITHOUT ANY GRUNTING.’ “Now recollect that two weeks from to morrow I am going to set you at liberty. But the first wife will say, ‘It is hard, for I have lived with my husband twenty years, or thirty, and have raised a family of children for him, and it is a great trial to me for him to have more women;’ then I say IT IS TIME THAT YOU GAVE HIM UP TO OTHER WOMEN WHO WILL BEAR CHILDREN. If my wife had borne me all the children that she ever would bare, the celestial law would teach me TO TAKE YOUNG WOMEN that would have children….
“SISTERS, I AM NOT JOKING, I do not throw out my proposition to banter your feelings, to see whether you will leave your husbands, all or any of you. BUT I KNOW THAT THERE IS NO CESSATION TO THE EVERLASTING WHINING OF MANY OF THE WOMEN IN THIS TERRITORY; I am satisfied that this is the case. And if the women will turn from the commandments of God and continue to despise the order of heaven, I will pray that the curse of the Almighty may be close to their heals, and that it may be following them all the day long….
“Prepare yourselves for two weeks from to morrow; and I will tell you now, that if you will tarry with your husbands, after I HAVE SET YOU FREE, YOU MUST BOW DOWN TO IT, and SUBMIT yourselves to the CELESTIAL LAW. You may go where you please, after two weeks from to-morrow; but, remember, that I WILL NOT HEAR ANY MORE OF THIS WHINING.”
(Sermon by Brigham Young, Journal of Discourses, Vol. 4., pp. 55-57; also printed in Deseret News, Vol. 6, pp. 235-236)
Well, regardless of all of that, it seemed as though polygamy was here to stay. The church leaders proclaimed that God would never take this sacred ordinance from the Earth and that it was His will that His chosen people practice this law. This law was restored as part of the restoration of the gospel.
George Q. Cannon - Monogamy responsible for the decline and fall of the Roman Empire:
“It is a fact worthy of note that the shortest lived nations of which we have record have been monogamic. Rome…was a MONOGAMIC NATION AND THE NUMEROUS EVILS ATTENDING THAT SYSTEM EARLY LAID THE FOUNDATION FOR THAT RUIN WHICH EVENTUALLY OVERTOOK HER.”
(Journal of Discourses, Vol. 13, p. 202)
Apostle Orson Pratt:
“This law of MONOGAMY, or the MONOGAMIC SYSTEM, laid the foundation for prostitution and the evils and diseases of the most revolting nature and character under which modern Christendom groans,…”
(Journal of Discourses, Vol. 13, page 195)Brigham Young - To become a god, one must be a polygamist:
“The ONLY MEN WHO BECOME GODS, even the Sons of God, are those WHO ENTER INTO POLYGAMY.”(Journal of Discourses, Vol. 11, page 269)
However, as persecutions raged on against the church, it became evident that the church leaders would have to choose between having the church fall apart due to the US government, or disavowing polygamy. Of course, the later route was chosen as we have the Official Declaration 1 .
Again, I see logical reasons for why we gave up polygamy. However, what drives me nutes are three things:
1) There are countries where polygamy is perfectly legal. In fact, many people practice it over there. However, if they want to get baptized, we have to make them divorce their other wives and have only one wife. If God really wants us to practice polygamy as a way of becoming more like him, why in the world do we not let those nations continue to practice it? Furthermore, why would we ever break up this family when they are doing exactly what God commanded our early church leaders to do?
2) Lately there has been a lot of controversy over the FLDS church and their polygamous acts. Now, I certainly condemn anyone having marital relations with underage girls, but I have to believe that was the exception, not the norm. So why did our church make a public announcement telling the world that we denounce polygamy, we do not believe in it, and will excommunicate anyone who practices it. It is as if we are ashamed that anyone would think that WE are the church that believes in polygamy. You would think that our church would be sending the FLDS church some good lawyers to try to protect their constitutional rights to practice their religion. After all, that could open the doors to polygamy being accepted in the US (like is being done with gay rights right now). However, I have a feeling that the church does not want polygamy to be legal again and, if it were, we would still not bring it back. After all, it is legal in other countries and we don’t let them….
*once again, I want to put it plainly that I am completely against the FLDS or anyone having sexual relations with underage kids!*
3) Why do we pretend that Joseph only had one wife? All we hear/learn about is Emma Smith and how wonderful she was. What about the other 24 wives (http://www.familysearch.org/Eng/Search/af/individual_record.asp?recid=7762167)? Aren’t we doing them a disservice by not even mentioning their existance? We make Emma out to be this incredbily wonderful women when in fact she apostatized from the church, started her own religion, and never joined Brigham Young and the rest of the saints. She hated Brigham and how he took over the church when Joseph died. However, we continually read about how wonderful she was. I would be pretty sad if I were one of the other wives and remained faithful to the church to the end.